release: 2.5.1: audit stage 2b - the log tailer and what the panel shows of a refusal

A log rotated while the panel was down is read to its end; the deferred
counter remembers a place in the log, not a second; a refused message's
page shows what Postfix wrote; a refusal the panel did not get to write is
written from mail.log; downtime is estimated (≈) when supervisord is
silent; the Sender check card counts connections and messages apart (the
owner's decision); a message the sweep closed says the panel closed it.
Plus the findings of both reviews of the stage.

Rolled out to the test server as 2.5.0-post.e1ddf12 (the same code):
migration 0009 ran on the live database - schema 9, the new columns in
place, 68/68 send-log rows still tied to their domain, integrity ok.

CHANGELOG cut; pin 2.5.1 in deploy/docker-compose.yml, README (with the
local-build note), guide; development.md "from pin"; roadmap row and the
recommended order; stage 2b marked shipped in the plan. No tag.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/development.md

@@ -107,7 +107,7 @@ than the default «meaningful step» rule in [§ Commits and release build](#com
 2. Git tag `vX.Y.Z` and publish the GitHub Release only on explicit request (see
    [§ Release image](#release-image)).
 
-**Planned version cuts** (from pin `2.5.0`; adjust if semver changes mid-track):
+**Planned version cuts** (from pin `2.5.1`; adjust if semver changes mid-track):
 
 | Stage | ID | Cut |
 |---|---|---|