phase1-3: apply review fixes and docs alignment

Implement phase 1 and 2 review actions (DMARC UI CSS fixes, bounded DMARC ingest stdin,
rate-limit eviction hardening, settings/user handler cleanup, shared atomic/supervisor helpers)
and phase 3 documentation/changelog updates including roadmap and accepted-risk notes.

Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>

internal/atomicfile/atomicfile.go

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+package atomicfile
+
+import (
+	"fmt"
+	"os"
+	"path/filepath"
+)
+
+// Write writes data to path via a temp file in the same directory followed by
+// a rename, so readers only ever see the complete old or new file.
+func Write(path string, data []byte, perm os.FileMode) error {
+	dir := filepath.Dir(path)
+	tmp, err := os.CreateTemp(dir, ".tmp-*")
+	if err != nil {
+		return fmt.Errorf("create temp in %s: %w", dir, err)
+	}
+	tmpName := tmp.Name()
+	cleanup := true
+	defer func() {
+		if cleanup {
+			_ = os.Remove(tmpName)
+		}
+	}()
+
+	if _, err := tmp.Write(data); err != nil {
+		tmp.Close()
+		return fmt.Errorf("write temp %s: %w", tmpName, err)
+	}
+	if err := tmp.Chmod(perm); err != nil {
+		tmp.Close()
+		return fmt.Errorf("chmod temp %s: %w", tmpName, err)
+	}
+	if err := tmp.Sync(); err != nil {
+		tmp.Close()
+		return fmt.Errorf("sync temp %s: %w", tmpName, err)
+	}
+	if err := tmp.Close(); err != nil {
+		return fmt.Errorf("close temp %s: %w", tmpName, err)
+	}
+	if err := os.Rename(tmpName, path); err != nil {
+		return fmt.Errorf("rename %s -> %s: %w", tmpName, path, err)
+	}
+	cleanup = false
+	return nil
+}