Phase 3: sending domains + per-domain OpenDKIM signing

Add/list/delete of sending domains with per-domain DKIM keys and the
OpenDKIM tables that drive signing (spec 6, 7.2.2-4, 7.2.10).

internal/domain:
- Pure-Go RSA-2048 keygen; PKCS#1 PEM written atomically at 0640; the
  published DNS TXT record is derived from the key on disk (single source
  of truth) rather than persisted. No os/exec for key generation.
- KeyTable/SigningTable fully regenerated from the registry on every
  add/delete (idempotent), written atomically; SigningTable via refile:
  with *@domain, KeyTable with absolute key paths. Table writer refuses
  any unsafe character as a backstop (spec 7.6.4).
- Reload without root: the unprivileged panel signals OpenDKIM through
  supervisord (`supervisorctl signal USR1 opendkim`, fixed args, no
  shell, no user input — spec 7.6.3). An existing key is reused, never
  overwritten, so re-adding a domain keeps its published DNS valid.
- Service orchestrates registry -> key -> table rebuild -> reload, with
  rollback of the row if a downstream step fails; delete cascades apps
  via the DB FK and removes the key + table entries.

Infra:
- Shared `selfpost` group bridges panel (writes keys) and opendkim
  (reads them); /data/opendkim is setgid so panel-created files inherit
  the group, keys are 0640, RequireSafeKeys is disabled by design.
- opendkim.conf moves from verify-only (Mode v) to signing (Mode s).
- entrypoint.sh normalises the DKIM tree on every start (ownership,
  setgid, perms, empty tables before opendkim starts) — self-healing
  after a restore.
- supervisord control socket opened to the `selfpost` group so the panel
  can request the reload.

web/store:
- Strict domain-name validation (whitelist [a-z0-9.-], DNS shape, >=2
  labels), lower-case normalisation (spec 7.6.2).
- Domain queries with application counts; delete relies on ON DELETE
  CASCADE. Dashboard lists domains + add form; domain page shows the
  DKIM record; a dedicated confirm page warns about the app cascade
  before deletion (spec 7.2.4); manual reload button (spec 7.2.12,
  OpenDKIM side; Postfix reload lands in Phase 5).
- Authenticated routes moved to a sub-mux using Go 1.22 method/wildcard
  patterns.

Tests: validateDomain, DKIM keygen/record roundtrip, table rendering +
injection-safety, key reuse, store cascade. Verified on the dev server:
gofmt/vet/test green, image builds, container e2e (add/delete a domain,
DKIM record shown, OpenDKIM reads panel keys and reloads, keys and
tables persist across a restart).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

build/Dockerfile

@@ -58,6 +58,16 @@ RUN postconf -e "maillog_file=/var/log/mail.log"
 # Unprivileged user for the panel process (spec 7.6.8).
 RUN useradd --system --no-create-home --shell /usr/sbin/nologin panel
 
+# Shared group bridging the two unprivileged services (spec 6): the panel
+# generates per-domain DKIM keys and rewrites the OpenDKIM tables, while
+# OpenDKIM (a different user) must read them. Membership in this group — plus
+# setgid dirs under /data/opendkim (set up in entrypoint.sh) — lets OpenDKIM
+# read the panel-owned keys, and lets the panel reach the supervisor control
+# socket to signal an OpenDKIM reload without any process running as root.
+RUN groupadd --system selfpost \
+ && usermod -aG selfpost panel \
+ && usermod -aG selfpost opendkim
+
 # Runtime directories: milter sockets and the consolidated persistent root.
 RUN mkdir -p /run/opendkim /run/selfpost /data \
  && chown opendkim:opendkim /run/opendkim \