inbound journal: one row per recipient, and every row counts to the cap (audit M3)

Security audit 2026-10-17, finding M3, stage 1. inboundSession.RcptTo
appended every RCPT (the outbound session de-duplicates), and the end of
the message inserted a row per recipient one statement at a time inside
Postfix's callback; the cut to 10 000 rows every 500 counted only the log
tailer's rows. Postfix accepts a repeated recipient up to
smtpd_recipient_limit (1 000) and sends each to the milter, so one message
was a thousand rows, uncut until the six-hourly prune.

Now: the inbound milter folds a repeated recipient (case-insensitive, as
cleanup's been_here() with BH_FLAG_FOLD does, and as session.RcptTo does);
a message's rows go in one transaction (store.InsertInboundSpamMessage,
which replaces InsertInboundSpam in milter.InboundStore); the count and the
cut moved from the tailer into the store (countInboundWrites, an atomic
counter on Store) so the milter's rows, the tailer's and the tailer's
start-up re-reads all count. store.InboundSpamLogMaxRows is the one cap.

Tests: TestInboundRecipientRepeatedIsOneRow (1 000 RCPT in two cases, one
row); TestInboundJournalIsCutWhicheverWriterWrites (a small cap: a message's
rows and refusals together cross the mark, the table is cut); the tailer's
own counting test went with its counter. go test ./internal/store
./internal/milter ./internal/logtail (Windows-only Follow failures aside).
Also gofmt of a test line from the M2 commit.

Docs: security.md § Mail path, architecture.md; CHANGELOG; plan.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -18,6 +18,11 @@ Format follows [Keep a Changelog](https://keepachangelog.com/en/1.1.0/); version
   milter before Postfix holds it to the login, so a client that never
   signed in, or another tenant's application, could use up a domain's
   limit. It is now the signed-in application's domain.
+- **One accepted message is one Inbound › Log row per recipient** (audit
+  M3): a recipient repeated in RCPT TO, up to Postfix's thousand, was a row
+  each, and the journal milter's rows did not count toward the 10 000-row
+  cut between the six-hourly prunes. Repeats are one row, a message's rows
+  are written in one transaction, and both writers count toward the cut.
 - **A stranger's recipient no longer writes an Inbound › Log row** (audit
   M2): Postfix quotes a refused recipient in its reply with the quotes
   removed, so `RCPT TO:<"; from=<x> to=<y> …"@domain>` spelled a second