feat: implement C.4 — hermetic container e2e gate + native release build

Separate test/e2e Go module drives the shipped deploy/docker-compose.yml
(plus a test-only override: self-signed cert, low ports, isolated compose
project) against a fake DNS zone (CoreDNS) and an smtp-sink MX, exactly as
an administrator and their applications would over HTTP/SMTP — covering the
class of failure unit tests can't see (container wiring). Positive path:
setup -> login -> domain -> DKIM record published into the fake zone ->
application -> SMTP AUTH send -> DKIM verified against the DNS-published
key -> send-log queued->sent. Negative: no-AUTH/unauthenticated relay,
sender/login mismatch, L1 (anvil) and L2 (panel) rate limits, journal-milter
fail-open, SELFPOST_HOSTNAME gate, session survives docker restart.

release.yml moves off qemu to a native per-arch build (amd64/arm64), each
gated by this suite before its tag is pushed and merged into the version
manifest.

Verified green on selfpost.example.com via `make e2e`; go vet/gofmt clean in
both modules.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

test/e2e/go.mod

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+module codeberg.org/mix/selfpost/test/e2e
+
+go 1.26
+
+require github.com/emersion/go-msgauth v0.6.8
+
+require golang.org/x/crypto v0.15.0 // indirect