panel-dkim-signing stage 2: OpenDKIM removed

The panel's signer is the only one. Gone: the opendkim package and its
configuration, the syslog-relay and opendkim programs, /dev/log and
/run/opendkim, the reload by USR1 through supervisord
(internal/supervisor/supervisor.go), internal/syslogrelay, the port of
OpenDKIM's From: parser (internal/milter/mailparse.go and its probe,
harness and test/upstream scripts), OPENDKIM_SOCKET and OPENDKIM_DIR.

Keys: internal/domain/keys.go (Keys, NewKeys, DKIM_DIR=/data/dkim) keeps
the keys and writes a selector table, /data/dkim/selectors ("<name>
<selector>"), which the signer reads in place of the KeyTable - it reads
no database, as the sender check reads none. The table is written before
the signer serves (EnsureServerSigned moved there from the notifier).
Keys and table 0600, directories 0700, the panel's. The entrypoint copies
/data/opendkim/keys once, as the panel user, into /data/dkim.new renamed
when whole, and stops the start if the copy fails; /data/opendkim is left
for a rollback to 2.7.x.

Sender check: one RFC 5322 address as a mail program reads it, held
against the bindings; the 256-byte refusal and the texts naming OpenDKIM
go. Allowed() folded the domain through strings.ToLower, which makes the
Kelvin sign a "k" - the comparison with OpenDKIM's reading had hidden it;
it folds ASCII only now.

Health: two dkim-signer rows (applications, notifications) in Milter
sockets, opendkim out of the liveness set; the card no longer takes any
row with a note for the spam filter. Texts as in the design commit.

KILL stays in deploy/docker-compose.yml: measured on the test server,
root without it cannot signal a process of another uid - supervisord
stopping the panel, Postfix's master its children. The plan's "only use
was the reload" was wrong; the comment now gives the real uses.

e2e: one signature, the panel's, verified by dkimpy; the /data/dkim modes;
the OpenDKIM log and process checks, testNeverSignedForAnother and the
cited opendkim, libopendkim11 and libmilter1.0.1 go.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

internal/web/view/help.go

@@ -167,9 +167,9 @@ var outboundTopics = []HelpTopic{
 	}},
 	{ID: HelpSenderCheck, Title: "Sender check", Body: []Text{
 		Rich("An application sends only as itself, and that holds for both senders a message has. The envelope sender is held against the login by Postfix. The ",
-			Code("From:"), " line, the one a mail program shows and the one the DKIM signature is chosen by, is held against it by the panel, under the same rule: an application set to any address of its domain may write any address of that domain, and one with a list of addresses only those. A message with any other ",
+			Code("From:"), " line, the one a mail program shows and the one DMARC holds the DKIM signature to, is held against it by the panel, under the same rule: an application set to any address of its domain may write any address of that domain, and one with a list of addresses only those. A message with any other ",
 			Code("From:"), " - another of your domains, the server's own name, an address somewhere else, or none at all - is refused for good with ",
-			Code("550 5.7.1"), ". The line is read the way the signer, OpenDKIM, reads it, so only its address counts: what a display name or a comment around it says is not judged, and a line holding more than one address is refused. It is a rejected row of the Outbound log, and its page says which address was refused. This is what keeps one application from getting mail signed with another domain's key.",
+			Code("550 5.7.1"), ". The line must hold one address, read as a mail program reads it: what a display name around it says is not judged, and a line holding more than one address is refused. It is a rejected row of the Outbound log, and its page says which address was refused. This is what keeps one application from sending, under this server's signature, as another domain or another application.",
 			Br(), Br(),
 			"The check is strict. While the panel does not answer, Postfix does not accept mail unchecked: it replies with a temporary error and the application sends again later. Server › Health counts what that costs: for how long the panel did not answer while Postfix itself was running; how many connections Postfix turned away because of it - it refuses from the connection on, before a message is offered, so a client that tries three times is three and a monitor that only connects is one; and how many messages were refused with a temporary error in the middle, when the panel stopped answering after a message had begun. A time marked ≈ includes a start at which supervisord could not say since when Postfix was running: the time since the panel's last sign of life is counted, which may be more than Postfix was up. The card warns when a connection was turned away or a message refused in the last 24 hours. If the numbers stay at nothing, the check is where it should be; if they do not, it belongs in a process of its own."),
 	}},